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"When I was first getting started, I found a local leather contingent that held monthly bar nights and discussion groups that taught classes for kinksters at any level.I'm a mid-20s, above-average-looking gay dude into spanking guys.The weird thing is, the only guys I can find to spank are straight. Seriously Perplexed And Needing Knowledge How do you know their new girlfriends don't start spanking them when you stop?It's not that they're closeted—most of them go on to have girlfriends, and that's when we stop—and they make it clear they don't want anything sexual to happen. And how do you know they aren't closing their eyes and imagining that you're a woman when you're spanking them?
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